I'm glad to see you here in the Community, @art22menius.
The categorization of your transactions in QuickBooks Online depends on how it was being cleared from your bank. However, you have the option to re-categorize your PayPal and Stripe entries by manually editing them one at a time. Just move the radio button from Transfer to Add to see the Select Category box.
Once done, and the Action column shows Add, click the Batch actions drop-down and choose Accept Selected. This should add the transactions to your register in QuickBooks.
Please check out the screenshots below for reference:
Right after, you can now match the current transactions. Please see the articles attached below for complete details of adding and matching bank entries in QBO: