Hello there, @tkb3abby.
I appreciate you providing the complete details of your concern. I can share some information about the popup message you're getting when changing the bill payment date in QuickBooks.
The option to turn off the popup message that you're getting is currently unavailable in QuickBooks. For now, you'll manually select Yes whenever you receive the popup message when changing the bill payment date.
I can see how this option would be helpful for you and your business. I'm going to submit a feedback to our Product Developers regarding this option. I'd also encourage you to submit a feedback. These requests and suggestions are forwarded to the Product Development Team for consideration in future updates.
Here's how:
1. At the top menu bar, go to Help.
2. Click Send Feedback Online.
3. Enter your request/product suggestion, then click Next.
4. Click Skip and send a message.
5. Select Feedback as the Category.
That's it! Thanks for being a part of our QuickBooks family. If you have any other concerns, please don't hesitate to reach back out. I'll be here to help.