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Since QuickBooks Self-Employed (QBSE) is dependent on the information that were transmitted from Etsy, I highly suggest contacting their Phone Support team to verify the specific transactions that will sync to QBSE.
Please refer to this link to get their most updated contact information: https://www.etsy.com/help/contact?ref=enhc.
Just in case, I'll add these articles for future reference:
Please leave a comment below if you have any other issues or concerns. I want to make sure everything is taken care of for you. Have an amazing rest of the day!