What do I do if my bank doesn't show up in the list of banks? (I already requested that mine be added) just wanting to know if theres a way to speed it up!

There's nothing you can do. Unless multiple users request the same thing, you'll need to import the data manually for the time being. Another option, you can use a 3rd party converter tool to speed up.

Welcome to the Community, @addie4. I understand the importance of connecting your bank to keep your business running smoothly. I’ll provide some insights that you need.
 

QuickBooks relies on banks to set up secure connections. If your bank isn’t listed, it means they haven’t completed integration and the necessary verification checks, so this process can’t be expedited.
 

In the meantime, I agree with SIAB that you can manually upload your bank transactions to keep your books up to date while you wait. Once your bank is connected, there’s a possibility of duplicate transactions appearing. If that happens, you can easily exclude them from your bank feed.

You can refer to these articles for detailed instructions on how you can manually upload and exclude transactions: 
 

• Manually upload transactions into QuickBooks Online.
• Exclude a bank transaction you downloaded into QuickBooks Online.
   

Should you need further assistance with connecting your bank or handling transactions, we’re here to help.