Thank you for providing such detailed information, @Rightoway. I truly understand how frustrating and time-consuming this situation can be, and I appreciate your patience.
Currently, QuickBooks does not offer the ability to customize settings specifically to meet the unique preferences you've outlined.
Please note that the resolutions provided by our Support team, as you mentioned above, are the recommendations we can offer at this time.
However, I would encourage you to explore third-party services that can provide the specific functionality you're looking for.
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