If this QB File is business, none of this is business. It's Personal. Every "expense" paid from business for Personal is not Expense. It would depend on the entity type, as Owner Draw or as Taxable Benefit through payroll, or as the Payroll Provision for employee child care allowance to the max for that tax year.
Using Business Money doesn't turn all spending into Business Expense. Personal still is personal.
It's time to meet with your own accountant.