QuickBooks Online (QBO) will depend on data shared from your bank. You'll want to exclude the expenses showing as deposit in the ForReview tab and manually enter them. Let me guide you how.
Go to the Banking menu
select the Banking tab.
Choose an account.
Go to the For Review tab.
Put a check mark beside the transactions.
Click the drop-down arrow from the Batch actions.
Select Exclude Selected.
Once done, manually add them in your bank register. However, if you manually uploaded the transactions, ensure to use a negative amount for the expense. You can check these great articles for more details: