Yes, you're right. We'll have to hit Refresh to see the changes made. I can see how this would be handy. Having your list auto refreshed after a reminder has been paid would be a time saver. Rest assured that I'll relay this message to our team in concern here on my end and add your vote for this one.
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Additionally, we have awesome guides about managing recurring transactions that can also provide some assistance: