Hi there, rebeccahaines1.
It's nice to see you back here in QuickBooks Community, rebeccahaines1.
Currently, there's no option to see the PIN in QuickBooks Desktop for security reasons. I suggest contacting the EFTPS support team so they'll be able to resend your PIN by U.S. Mail. The IRS can schedule a payment for you in the meantime if you verify certain information. For safety reasons, your PIN must be mailed and can't be given to you over the phone. For additional information, you can click this article: Enroll in Electronic Federal Tax Payment System (EFTPS).
To see the detailed steps on how you can change your password in QuickBooks Desktop to match your new EFTPS Internet password, you can open this article: Update your EFTPS Internet password.
Please refer to this article to view information on how you can see the status of your payment or filing: Check e-file or e-pay status.
As always, please mention me if you have any more questions with QuickBooks. You have me here to help you get back on track. Have a nice day!