how do i delete a payment to me

Hello, Zaidyhowie. Is the payment showing in the bank feeds, or was it manually recorded? If it's created manually, simply open the transaction and select More at the bottom, then Delete. This completely removes the entry from your books. 

On the other hand, if it's downloaded from your bank, just go to the Bank Transactions page and undo the payment in the Posted tab. Once done, exclude it from the Pending section.

Let me know in the comments if you have other concerns. I'll be happy to assist!